First Day, New School

bus-first-day-92-08-24.gifToday was Nick and Dan’s first day of going to their new school, Gwinn Oaks. They had to walk to the bus stop. The bus stop is across from our driveway. Heck when I was a kid… (When I was a kid, I walked around the corner to Briarlake.)

I had stayed up working late the night before, so I slept in. I was able to see them off. Kathy, now 24 hours overdue, and I stood out at the bus stop. Nicole was already worrying that the bus might not stop. She had on a new tie-die jumper. Danny concentrated, clutching his coveted new Batman lunchbox. They both looked up the road. The bus came. The bus stopped. They climbed aboard, not looking back. That was ok, the camera had run out of film.

Nicole smiled through the window and waved. She will like her new school, I’m sure. At registration in the lunch room she blurted out in realization, “This will be the first white teacher I’ve had.”

I saw Danny sitting next to Nicole, wearing his laminated cardboard bus #12 around his neck, looking straight ahead, looking very determined. You would think he could see 16 years of education out in front of that bus.

Go get ’em Dan.

Official Due Date

The four of us went over to Bob and Carol’s. We set the kids up in a back room and watched 3 hours of Oliver Stone’s “JFK”. The movie was long, but raised many curious questions. How that single bolt rifle could have fired off 3 quick rounds accurately is the strangest. Either there was a conspiracy among men, or physics conspired with Oswald.

I looked over and caught Kathy timing her contractions. She was getting worried, so we grabbed an umbrella and took a walk down the street in the drizzle. Bob and Carol greeted us when we came back, half expecting us to bring in a baby, I think. But the contractions settled down. Another false alarm.

Today is the official due date. Kathy had looked down at her stomach earlier on Saturday and said, “Tomorrow is your birthday. You don’t want to miss it!”

Happy Birthday, new kid. Where are you?

Ted’s New Girlfriend

Last night Mom and Dad double-dated with Ted and his new girlfriend, Susan. Mom and Dad were the first to meet her (except for Grant, I think, who lives over at Ted’s whenever he can- only he is out west visiting the Grand Canyon, gambling in Las Vegas, and searching for Redwoods.) The family spent much of the day calling each other to discuss all of this. Ted seemed just as eager to join in all the discussions.

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Strange Awake-Dreams

Went to the Avant house for Jimmy and Kim’s party. Kathy & Elizabeth spent a lot of time talking pregnancy. Elizabeth has been having more strange awake-dreams. Something about swallowing gum and poisonous crickets. She’s paranoid about eating the wrong thing. Harrison is having sympathy sickness, tiredness, and hard-time-sleeping-ness. Drives Elizabeth crazy.

Kathy declared that she is not going to a 40th week doctor’s appointment. The new kid is under direct orders to be born sooner than that. The sooner the better. Sunday the 23rd is the official due date.

Presidents and Baseball Players

[Nicole, name all the presidents you can.]

Jimmy Carson

JFK

Washington

Abraham Lincoln

George Bush

Bill Clinton might be president because nobody likes George Bush I bet.

Ronald Regan

I forgot the president who was before George Bush.

That’s it.

[Nicole, name all the Braves players you can think of.]

Deon Sanders

Steve Avery

Charlie Liebrandt

Greg Olson

(Cashin, says Danny.)

Terry Pendelton

John Smoltz

Ron Gant

Tom Glavin

Almando… a Spanish guy with a mustache

[Danny, name all the presidents you know.]

George Bush

George Washington

And you know the man on the $5 bill?

[Danny, name all the Braves players you know.]

Deon

Charlie Liebrandt

George Smoltz

Frozen Custard

Danny is fond of pointing out his mother’s brown belly button to Nicole. Kathy thinks this is funny. She thinks a lot of things are funny. It is good that she can laugh carrying around the kid-to-be.

Last night the kids played baseball out in the street until it was getting dark. Doug was the coach of this big get together.

Tonight we cashed in Danny’s birthday certificate at the frozen custard shop. He got a cup of chocolate custard. When given a menu of any number of flavors, he inevitably chooses chocolate.

Danny 5

Danny turned 5 years old. It took 3 birthday parties to get him there. Last week was his small party at Gramalie’s. Yesterday he had remarkable Nathan, Robert Butker, Jessica Rowe, and Shawn over. Nicole, of course, was there as guest/sister/babysitter.

I took them on a tour to the river while Kathy gave Sue Rowe a tour and Nancy fed little Brian in the reading/feeding room. We ate blackberries on the way. Inside we played musical chairs to the Beatle’s birthday song. Kathy then set up the table for all the kids to make their own pizzas using small Bobolli (sp?) breads. These were very good, and all the kids enjoyed them except for remarkable Nathan. He put a tiny bit of sauce in the middle with two pepperoni’s. After cooking his pizza, he nibbled the edges off.

On Danny’s actual birthday, Carol, Bob, Eric, Ted, and Grant came over for the family lunch party. Bob cooked hamburgers on my grill while Ted and Grant watched, making smoke signals with the Webber top. We had fun. Hope Danny did.

Gift Highlights:

Nerf bow & arrow set

THE Peter Pan Sword

Paddle Ball – I set the record of 350. Danny was getting pretty good until the rubberband broke too many times

Batman figure on batwing/motorcycle thing

Zip Glider – didn’t work after an hour assembly time

Zip Helicopter – worked so good that Ted & Grant took it outside to compete

Squint the Wrong Eye

Some fathers come home to hear their son’s exciting news about catching a lizard or building a rock castle. I came home today to Danny’s surprise that Aunt Carol gave us a new diaper bag for the baby.

Danny is looking forward to having a little brother or sister. He recently started giggling whenever he sees a baby on TV.

Kathy and I went to our first Better Birth refresher class last Thursday night. In the middle of class (through which we kept laughing) Kathy hit me with the sobering news that she was due in 5 weeks and 2 days. No longer counting months.

Over the weekend she started having frequent Braxton-Hicks contractions. She got fairly upset on Sunday because she realized the time is near. She hasn’t really been thinking about it through all the hussle and bussle associated with moving.

Friday night we had everyone over for dinner club. Frank was amazed at how everything seemed to fit like we had been living here for a while. Last time he saw it was the frantic Sunday afternoon move. Everything was stacks and boxes.

Newborn Brian slept the entire time in Nicole’s bed. Nicole, Danny and Eric spent the night at Gramalie’s and had an early birthday party for Danny. He got a nerf bow & arrow set. Looks just like Robin Hood when he pulls the bow. He has a hard time because he can only squint the wrong eye.

We went on our longest walk yet. On the way Patty stopped us to chat, walked us through her house to see the deck she has to paint. She had just painted the garage floor and was having a hard time getting it to dry.

The Bucket Man

[Jeb writes… ] I had just sat down with the family and Dad to a spaghetti dinner. [We lived at Livsey for a month between moves. Kathy was 7 months pregnant.] Mom was in Tampa with her friends. About my fifth bite, I felt a piece of French bread get caught in my throat. I immediately realized that it was stuck, so I went to the upstairs bedroom to try to cough it up or swallow it down.

My eyes started tearing up. I felt on the verge of throwing up or choking. Terrible feeling. My stomach tried throwing up, and my throat tried swallowing, but nothing was coming up and nothing was going down. My esophagus was sealed tight.

The problem with this condition is that you fill up with saliva that starts spilling into your wind pipe. Even though I knew what was happening, my body was panicking. It didn’t know whether I was going to gag or vomit, and neither reaction seemed to help.

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Boarding at Livsey

Sitting next to Dad on Livsey. Kathy is downstairs working on the computer building outlines for her English final. Mom is working in her studio. Danny and Nicole are asleep upstairs.

Penny Rose is getting ready to go to sleep, I imagine, in her new home at 1234 Hancock Circle. It has all been freshly painted by Bob Orie.

This weekend has been much more relaxing than last when Bob E., Ted, and Grant helped me and Kathy move all of our stuff over to Ted’s living room and dining room. Living with Mom and Dad is working out quite well. Kathy’s dinners have been enjoyed thoroughly by Dad, and Mom enjoys coming home to prepared meals. I don’t think we will get thrown out.

I enjoyed not writing a mortgage check at the end of May.

I went over to Bob’s house today to help him build an elaborate, hanging closet space saver for the master-bedroom-to-be downstairs. I reviewed all of the tools and things he has in his garage, trying to figure which ones Kathy and I will have to get for the 1234 Rae Place. Bob has a lot of extras and specialty tools. Some I could not identify. A shovel and a hose should get us through the summer. Though I will need something to cut back the enumerable holly bushes in the front. I hope they are of the weak thorn variety.

April and May were very busy months.