The Ireland Trip

A GOOD TIME IN IRELAND

The four happy warriors take a short break at Keough's. Day 1Bob, Jack and Anthony arrived at our house and we left in the van. Excitement was in the air as we drove to meet Julie and Mary Sydney at the airport. Connections were made and excitement died as we waited for our flight and then the long 5 hour trip. We didn’t sleep much and the beer was too expensive at $5. We picked up the rental car and were able to get our clubs and gear in it. Anthony drove and our enthusiasm picked up as we got to the coast at Lahinch Golf Club and the Cliff of Mohr but it was cold and windy. Bob's first BudvokThe drive to Galway was scenic and impressive. Our first Pub stop was at Keough’s in Kinvera. Bob discovered he didn’t like Guinness but did like a Czech beer, Budvolk. Korean bar tenders were a surprise. Spent the night in Galway and ate at an impressive pub, Skeff’s.

The most excitement of the trip was generated when we arrived on the coast road to our cottage which was right on the ocean with a fantastic view. The funniest thing to happen was when we stopped a tractor to ask directions. Anthony got some good shots of the two trolls who were nice but very trolly. The Beach Bar pub was but 30 yards from our cottage and we enjoyed two or three meals and more than three Guinnesses. Sunday was a tourist day that started at Sligo Cathedral and included Lough Gill and Innisfree but a most disgraceful lunch at Burger King. Helen Cauklin our landlord met us that evening and we enjoyed talking with her about the history of the cottage. She wouldn’t have a drink with us but invited us to her home in Easkey.

Monday we got what we came for a wild and beautiful golf course at Enniscrome right on the Atlantic. It was windy, cold and misty, but each hole was spectacular. The views were worth the green fee, which was high. The four of us use pulled carts and Bob and I vowed we’d play no courses that didn’t provide golf carts. We ate ham and cheese sandwiches that night at our cottage after Bob and Jack built a fine peat fire.

Tuesday contained a forecast of rain showers and we decided to do some sightseeing on the way to Donegal Town. Our first stop was in Drumcliff and Yeats grave and the little church adjacent to the cemetery. We drove closer to Ben Bulben, a mountain made famous by Yeats, for pictures and a nice drive thru deserted roads. We stopped off at Mullaghmore, a picturesque sea side village where Mountbatten was blown up by the IRA before arriving in Donegal. We had a so so lunch in a modern pub (no atmosphere) and did some shopping before returning back. On the way we stopped to check out two golf courses, Donegal Golf Club and Stranhill Golf Club outside of Sligo. We took a detour to drive halfway up Knocknerea. Anthony wanted to climb it but it was getting late so we headed for our cottage after buying some more groceries. We had a great view of both Knockenera and Ben Bulben across the bay from our cottage.

Wednesday was our day in Belmullet at the Carne Golf Club, another links coast on the western tip of Ireland. It was a fairly long drive over curvy, narrow roads, the normal situation in that part of Ireland. On the way we stopped in Ballina to check out a parkland course and decided to cancel our tee time at Strandhill and reserve a tee time and cart at the Ballina Golf Club. We passed a peat generating plant, a pretty trout stream complete with fly fishermen and pipe being layed by Shell for gas and many peat fields. Belmullet is a nice picturesque village and we found a pub, T. O’Talboid, that provided a pint and a good meal. Bob and I had swordfish. The Carne course is what I assume to be a typical links course, but it contained different views as islands and ocean could be seen from every hole. The huge sand dunes were a continuing problem to all except the straight shooter. The day turned out to be beautiful with full sun, but the ocean wind was always present and always changing. We couldn’t have asked for a better day. Bob and I enjoyed having a riding cart even though we almost experienced a disastrous turn over. We all played a little better than the first day and Anthony was hitting the ball long and true. We decided to take the coast road back to Bellina and were rewarded with some incredible sights. One such place was across from the Ceide Fields. The cliffs were every bit as impressive as the Cliffs of Mohr and were probably higher. The Ceide Fields which were closed as it was after 7:30 PM is the site of an archaeological dig of life 5,000 years ago. We stopped in Killala for supper but everything was closed so we continued on to Ballina where we enjoyed a good meal at the Bard. I had Seaford Thermidor, Anthony had some sort of Pasta dish and I don’t know what Jack and bob had. Bob, Anthony and I left Jack at the cottage and drove back to Easkey to hear some Irish Music at E.J. McMahon’s Pub. I was a fairly traditional pub but the music wasn’t scheduled to start until after 10:00 so after a few games of pool we called Helen Caulkin who lived with husband Joseph and their two children across the street. She invited us over for a drink and we were amazed at the nice interior of their three- story home. Joseph is a sheep and dairy farmer with well over 100 acres of land. We stopped by the pub but were not impressed with the music and went home about 11:00. It was the first time we had driven in the dark.

Thursday we got to the Ballina Golf Club a little early for our 11:00 tee time. Bob and I got a cart, Jack used a pull cart and Anthony carried his clubs. This course, a parkland, had no sand dunes and the wind was only a breeze. The Irish referred to it as a gentle course, but it was still tough to the four Americans. The weather was ideal. It is a pretty layout with nice scenery but not the wild stuff of the links courses. We enjoyed meeting the “Feisty Lady” of the Club and she had lunch with us and made reservations at a motel near Shannon for us on Friday. We went into town, Bob wanted to buy a “94 year old” customer at Crossans a drink, but it turned out the bartender was kidding about his age and said he wasn’t 71. Bob didn’t buy him a drink but we did enjoy watching the characters in the pub. Some were betting on horse races, a “runner” was taking up money and running to the bookie across the street.

Friday was clean up and leave day. The driver was allowed to sleep late while the three more mature travelers cleaned up and packed and had a last breakfast of cereal and toast (made from white bread not brown) and coffee which was our daily breakfast the entire week we were at the cottage. It was with some regret that we pulled out and locked the gate for the last time. The week had gone too fast. We got away by 11:15 and stopped in Tuam for lunch. We settled on a pub, The Brogue, and enjoyed a good lunch. It was a new pub that seemed to have a lot of business people as customers for lunch. We checked out E.G. Canavan’s across the street. It was more of the traditional type pubs but it had a woman from Slovakia for a bartender and she had no personality. We found our motel, The Two-mile Inn, near Shannon with no trouble and we arrived at the same time as a wedding party. They all seemed to be well fed and ready to celebrate. In fact we had breakfast the next morning the bride was still in her wedding gown and feeling no pain. Bob, Anthony and I rode into Limrick which seemed to be larger than I remembered. After checking out some pubs we settled on the Locke Bar and Bistro where we enjoyed a good meal (I had Irish Stew). Some one told us we could hear traditional music at the pub, O’Reily’s, next to our motel. Again we were disappointed so we left after a pint. We turned in for the at 10:15 and left a call for 6:15.

Saturday we had a leisure and big breakfast at the motel and loaded up for the airport, where we found we couldn’t board because we didn’t arrive soon enough to past through customs and get our clubs and baggage loaded. The tour director, me, should have known better but the three fellow golfers didn’t get openly mad at me and we got a 11:20 flight via JFK and had to pay $50 each. No, I didn’t volunteer to pay for the four of us. After some shopping at the Duty Free Shop where they were giving away jiggers of Irish Whiskey we boarded our plane for an uneventful ride that had to buck a 190-knot head wind and making us late for our connections. They did get us through customs fast and we ended up getting to Atlanta 30 minutes early at 4:30. Julie met us and we were on the way home after truly an experience of a life- time.

New Dishwasher

Grant & Jami and the kids went to a wedding Saturday in Rome, GA and bought a new tent to camp out that night. It got really cold and they slept very little. They called us Sunday morning and said they would come by on the way back to Athens. We had already been to Mass the night before, so scurried around and got some pizza dough going in the bread machine, loaded the dishwasher and did a little clean up after the garage sale Friday and Saturday. Dad called me in the kitchen and asked if I had spilled some water on the floor. Nope. The dishwasher was leaking! We turned it off and poked around inside to see if something was blocking the drain, but found nothing, so decided to wait for Grant to look at it.

Grant, Jami and Fiona came in exhausted. Michael had slept all the way so he was feeling fine. We asked Grant to see if he could figure out what happened to the dishwasher. He explored and couldn’t find the source, and decided we needed a new dishwasher. So, off we went to Sears discount store where we bought a brand new KitchenAid dishwasher. Grant & Jami took the old one out and to the street, brought the new one in and Grant began the installation (it turns out that’s really what he is best at – installing a new one and not fixing an old one). He spent hours on our kitchen floor working with the installation, an additional trip to Home Depot for a tool, and finished up about 5:00 p.m. He was tired when he arrived that morning and beyond tired when he left for Athens. Michael tried to help him as you can see from the picture below.

We enjoyed having them all for the day, and regret having Grant work so hard! He may never stop by our house again on the way to Athens. Fiona and Michael had their first visit to the Tiger Cave at the end of the street.

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Irish Mullet

Anthony wrote:

Back in Ballina, we played the course here today, a “park” course as

opposed to the other two that were links. These pictures are from a

trip we took up to Donegal on Tues, then yesterday we played Carne

near Belmullet. The cliffs were along the route back from Belmullet.

Fitting because Bob’s hairdo is a mullet.

Gotta run up to the pub. See you when we get back this weekend..

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Photos from Ballina

Anthony wrote:

The house with the green trim is where we are staying, the Beach Bar

is 50 yards away. I’m emailing from the Chat’rNet internet cafe in

Ballina. We are going to play golf this afternoon at Inniscrone (sp?)

if the weather cooperates. It’s pretty cold and windy and the rain

comes and goes. Having a good time, sorry we can’t call more often

but we didn’t setup the cell phones in advance and it would cost too

much to make calls anyway. Also don’t have a phone at the house.

Everybody’s having a great time, will email more pics later.

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New York

I am truly blessed, fortunate and grateful for a wonderful trip to New York City with my good friend, Mary Sydney. We left Tuesday morning at 6:30 a.m. Dad got up and drove us to the airport in the middle of the night. It was raining when we arrived, but stopped by noon and never rained again. Beautiful weather for walking. We shopped at a great discount store (Daffys), had lunch at an Italian restaurant, went to Grand Central Station to look around (just 2 blocks from our hotel), and just enjoyed walking and looking.

Checked in our hotel about 3:00 – Iroquois Boutique Hotel on 44th Street. It is a beautiful small hotel – first class – on a National Register List of Best Small Hotels in the world. We went to see “Hairspray” that night with Diane DeGarno (American Idol runner-up 2004). It was really fabulous – so funny – and Diane should get an Emmy. She was great! Quite an actress.

Wednesday the highlights were riding the subway down to Canal Street and Chinatown where the shopping is amazing. They have all of these mock-up designer things at a fraction of the cost. We ate at an authentic Chinese restaurant and took the subway back up to Lincoln Center (had to change trains at Time Square, but everybody took care of us wherever we went and helped us and we didn’t even have to ask). We planned to walk through Central Park, but a rickshaw driver, Peter from Poland, approached us and convinced us we would see much more on a rickshaw, so we hopped aboard. He was a great guide. He would stop and let us take pictures and pointed out so many interesting things we would have totally missed if we had walked. Anyhow, it’s too many acres for us to have covered that much territory in one hour by foot.

We went to see Mama Mia that night and walked to the theatre. We stopped to have a bite to eat on the way, but neither of us were very hungry. The waitress seated us by the windows that went all the way down to the floor and were open. Outside on the sidewalk was a vendor selling kabobs, pretzels and other stuff, so I stepped out of the window and bought a huge hot pretzel which we had with our beer while we waited for the soup to come. Mama Mia was also fabulous. I think we saw the 2 best plays in New York.

We didn’t have time to do much on Thursday as our ride to the airport picked us up at 10:30. So, we just walked down the street and had a fabulous breakfast, packed and headed home. This was a dream trip. I wasn’t sure I would get to go when she invited me because of Dad’s situation, but she was willing to take a chance. God has answered all of our prayers in the last few weeks. So many blessings! Thank each of you who are reading this for praying for Dan. I can’t believe he’s now in Ireland!

Women in Black

Yesterday, Mary Sydney and I flew home from New York. Our flight arrived ATL airport at 3:30. We went to baggage claim, then called Bob to see where the soon-to-be Irish travelers were. They were one exit from the airport. We walked down to International Check-In and they pulled up, unloaded, kissed hello and good-by, we loaded our bags and drove the van home. Now, isn’t that just perfect timing? Bob said “I love a plan that works”.

I’m so glad Anthony is with them to take care of the others. He is designated driver (thank goodness).

Sligo Town – 8 Degrees

On 5/19/06, Tyler wrote:

I want to know about the efficacy of the anti-clotting stockings that you blokes are purported to have been wearing on the flight, what?

Anthony wrote:

mmmm Mountain Dew. I’m now at an Internet Cafe in Sligo town. Don’t have my laptop but will return with it maybe Tues. No blood clots on any of the codgers so the stockings must have worked. On my way to try to call Ashley from a pay phone. No phone at the cottage which is about a 25 minute drive from here right on a beach with a pub next door. Will send pictures on Tues or later today or something. Weather not too sporting today. 8 degrees celsius whatever that is in real degrees.

Coin-Operated Computer in Galway

Anthony wrote from Galway, Ireland:

> Couldn’t sleep on the plane, so we’ve been up for basically 28 hours.

> I’ve been driving on these tiny roads and we stopped at a pub and saw

> some sights. We drove from Shannon to the west coast then up the coast

> to Gallway. We’re staying at some crappy motel that doesn’t have

> internet in the rooms so there’s the coin-operated computer in the

> lobby I put some Euro coins in and now I have 28 minutes. Cell phones

> don’t work here so no telling when we’ll be in touch. I will send pics

> when I can.

> Anyway I’m hallucinating from lack of sleep, just wanted to let you

> know that all the old men and I are present and accounted for and

> sleepy, but excited

One Week in the Life of a Grandaddy

This week started the last day of April 2006. Mary Lou called and asked if I would swap Adoration hour with her. Perfect, I would take her 4:00 PM time slot and she would take my 10:00 AM at the precise hour I was scheduled to have an Heart Catherization. I went to sleep contented that things were falling in to place and I might make my Ireland trip on May 18 after all.

Monday morning the Cardiologist’s nurse called and said the procedure was canceled because the lab tests indicated I was anemic. What is that! She said call your Primary Doctor. That is easier said than done. I jumped thru the hoops: call Advice Nurse, leave word, Nurse calls back, she will give Doctor message, surprise, Doctor calls back and tells me that we have to find out what is causing the anemia. He’ll see if he can fit me in for an emergency Colonoscopy. Bad news! They think some kind of cancer might be the cause. A GI person calls and reports they have me scheduled at Northside Hospital for a 12:30PM procedure and be there at 11:30 and oh yeah you know you can’t eat anything after midnight tonight and only liquids Tuesday and Wednesday. Also you have to drink a gallon of Colyte, a laxative between 6:00 PM and 10:00 PM Tuesday. Also again “Don’t forget to bring someone with you to drive you home”. Bad day. Should I call brother Bob and tell him the Ireland trip looks doubtful for me. No, I don’t know what is going on, I’ll wait.

Tuesday, nothing to eat, but it gets worse at 6:00 PM. When I was college age there was a craze that said a person couldn’t drink an ounce of beer per minute for sixty minutes. This was a little like that but Colyte is not beer and beer is not a laxative. This was bad, bad. Eight ounces every 15 minutes and after 30 minutes the “john” got involved. At 10:00 PM I said I had had enough and was quitting after I had finished 80%. Mom said she didn’t blame me but she didn’t think I had finished 75%. I went to bed feeling the worst of the colonoscopy was over.

Wednesday, Mom got me to Northside Hospital on time. I checked in while Mom parked and noticed we got a free parking ticket. Very good, Mom hates to pay for parking (water and ice too). They started wiring me up and I remembered I hadn’t told Mom about the free parking ticket and she would be some kind of upset if she paid for parking when I had a free ticket. I told myself over and over “Remember the free ticket”. They wheeled me in the procedure room and the Doctor said he was going to do an Endoscopy also. I told him I would gag like crazy when they put that thing down my throat.” I gag when I go to the dentist.” He said he did too and not to worry. The last thing I remember was worrying about him doing the mouth thing first and not vice versa. (Jeb later told me they had two instruments, but I didn’t see but one and Jeb wasn’t there). I woke up talked a little bit and Mom drove me home where she fixed me what my heart and stomach desired, Eggs, bacon, grits, bagel and coffee. She told me the nurse got upset with me after the procedure because I kept saying “Make sure you get the free parking ticket”. The good news was he didn’t find any cancer, but the bad news was I still had anemia and the Ireland date was approaching.

Thursday was a frustrating day I called three Doctor offices to find out what was next on the agenda. No luck. The nurses said the report was not available.

Friday morning the Cardiologist’s called and said I should get my blood checked. This puzzled me somewhat because I knew the colonoscopy didn’t cure my anemia. As soon as I left the house unbeknownst to me Mom got into the act. She called the doctors’ nurses and told them I had been planning a trip to Ireland for over a year and three other people were depending on me to go. I received a call in the waiting room and Mom said I had an appointment at 11:40 with Dr. Simpson, my primary doctor. He had already had a conversation with the Cardiologist and they had a plan. If I still had anemia I would get a blood transfusion. As it turned out the lab tests revealed my anemia was still present. Dr. Simpson arranged for the transfusion to take place Saturday AM.

Saturday at 7:55 AM I drove into the parking garage and got my ticket. The location was on the 11th floor in a new building adjacent to the hospital. The facilities were first rate and a nice nurse named Nicole took very good care of me as I had two pints of O- dripped into my system. It was all over by 11:45 and I left at 12:15. Surprise, surprise, the parking booth was closed and I didn’t have to pay. I wished Mom had been with me , she would have appreciated that.

The week is up I’ll see if I can cut the grass then see how I feel. I thank all those who prayed for me. I know there were a lot, from Fiona to Mrs. Deckbar and many in between. I thank God that he answered the prayers and now allows me to seek His will for me for the rest of my days. Amen