Visit to Springhill College

In August 2005, we were vacationing with Margie and Captain Jack in Ft. Myers, and talked about Danny being at Springhill College as a freshman. We also talked about Uncle Bill O’Leary, a Jesuit priest and Grandaddy’s mother’s brother (only boy of 6 children), who was president of Springhill back in World War II. I asked Margie if she would be willing to paint a portrait of Fr. Bill for Danny to present to the school. There is a freshman dorm named O’Leary Hall, and we thought that might be a good place for it to hang. Margie said she needed a project and would be glad to paint the portrait. She needed pictures to go by, and they were furnished by Kay.

Margie actually finished the painting in January or February of this year and sent it to Atlanta for us to have framed and to find out if Springhill would like to have it. I asked Edward to write a biography about Uncle Bill, took a picture of the painting, and I wrote a letter to the president, Fr. Lucey. Upon receipt of this package, he called me and said they would very much like to have the painting. He first put me in touch with Dr. May, his assistant who is in charge of the entire buildings and grounds. She thought it would be best to wait until the fall season to have the presentation.

I was then turned over to Fr. Mark Lewis, another assistant to Fr. Lucey, who is the archivist for the school. Together, by emails, we planned to have the presentation in late October.

Grandaddy and I drove down to Mobile Monday, October 30th, and the presentation and unveiling was scheduled for 4:30 p.m. in O’Leary Hall. We arrived at the school about 3:00 p.m. and Danny took us on a tour. We visited Danny’s dorm, the beautiful church that reminds me of a cathedral, the Administration Building where the Rotunda is located with the portraits of all those who have served as president since 1830, the baseball field where Danny pitched 5 innings on Sunday and won the game, and the cemetery where Fr. Bill is burried. It was an absolutely perfect day with blue skies, plenty of sunshine, and about 70 degrees.

We arrived at O’Leary Hall about 4:10 p.m. and Fr. Mark was waiting for us. He had arranged to have a reception following the unveiling with cold drinks and cookies. Fr. Lucey, Dr. May, some students and several of the administrative staff attended. Fr. Mark read some of the biography written by Edward, and there were flyers on all of the doors with Margie’s profile and a picture of Uncle Bill. When it came time to unveil the portrait, Danny was asked to do the honors. He did it very meticulously and everyone applauded. It was a nice ceremony.

After the reception, Grandaddy,Danny, Fr. Mark and I were invited to have dinner in the President’s Dining Hall. Fr. Lucey rode over with us, took us on a tour of the new offices, and invited us to have drinks in the sitting room overlooking the city of Mobile. Afterwards, we were escourted into the gorgeous dining room, with Waterford chandellier, huge and beautiful break-front, lovely chairs and banquet table. Fr. Lucey entertained us during dinner with many stories about the school and those who support it in various ways. The dinner was delicious and elegantly served. Danny seemed to enjoy it as much as we did and I can verify that both of us loved it.

After dinner we dropped Danny off at his dorm and went back to the motel. The next morning we attended 7:30 a.m. Mass in the quaint chapel by the cemetery we had visited the day before. Fr. Lucey celebrated the Mass. The chapel holds about 30 people and it was full. Fr. Lucey gave a very meaningful sermon about the tiny mustard seed and the yeast, each becoming something so much larger and better. He said that every small thing we do for God grows and makes a huge difference. It was a very spiritual ending to a memorable trip.

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Happy Birthday, Jeb

Carol called tonight about 7:00 and asked what I was doing this time 45 years ago. I told her that I had picked Patsy up at the airport and we were riding in the Varsity to get some dinner. In those days, they had curb-side service and the guys would hop on your car and ride with you to wherever you parked it and take your order. Patsy was only 16 and she was in “Hog Heaven” (the right place to be – at the Varsity). Dad was in Sumpter, SC on business, and Jeb wasn’t suppose to be making his appearance this early, but lo and behold, I went into labor the very next morning and Auntie P drive me down 85 to St. Joseph’s Hospital in the heart of downtown Atlanta. She had not had a driver’s license very long since she has just turned 16 in January. I remember her complaining that she was sorry she had not remembered to bring her sunglasses because everybody else driving their cars on 85 had on sunglasses.

Patsy and I checked into the hospital and it wasn’t long before Dr. Weinburg helped me to deliver a 7 pound beautiful baby boy. Patsy was the first one to see Jeb. Dan came home as soon as he found out and was there when I woke up. It was a very happy day and the beginning for lots of happiness that Jeb has brought to me and Dad for the past 45 years. Thank you, son.

Love,

Mom

The Ireland Trip

A GOOD TIME IN IRELAND

The four happy warriors take a short break at Keough's. Day 1Bob, Jack and Anthony arrived at our house and we left in the van. Excitement was in the air as we drove to meet Julie and Mary Sydney at the airport. Connections were made and excitement died as we waited for our flight and then the long 5 hour trip. We didn’t sleep much and the beer was too expensive at $5. We picked up the rental car and were able to get our clubs and gear in it. Anthony drove and our enthusiasm picked up as we got to the coast at Lahinch Golf Club and the Cliff of Mohr but it was cold and windy. Bob's first BudvokThe drive to Galway was scenic and impressive. Our first Pub stop was at Keough’s in Kinvera. Bob discovered he didn’t like Guinness but did like a Czech beer, Budvolk. Korean bar tenders were a surprise. Spent the night in Galway and ate at an impressive pub, Skeff’s.

The most excitement of the trip was generated when we arrived on the coast road to our cottage which was right on the ocean with a fantastic view. The funniest thing to happen was when we stopped a tractor to ask directions. Anthony got some good shots of the two trolls who were nice but very trolly. The Beach Bar pub was but 30 yards from our cottage and we enjoyed two or three meals and more than three Guinnesses. Sunday was a tourist day that started at Sligo Cathedral and included Lough Gill and Innisfree but a most disgraceful lunch at Burger King. Helen Cauklin our landlord met us that evening and we enjoyed talking with her about the history of the cottage. She wouldn’t have a drink with us but invited us to her home in Easkey.

Monday we got what we came for a wild and beautiful golf course at Enniscrome right on the Atlantic. It was windy, cold and misty, but each hole was spectacular. The views were worth the green fee, which was high. The four of us use pulled carts and Bob and I vowed we’d play no courses that didn’t provide golf carts. We ate ham and cheese sandwiches that night at our cottage after Bob and Jack built a fine peat fire.

Tuesday contained a forecast of rain showers and we decided to do some sightseeing on the way to Donegal Town. Our first stop was in Drumcliff and Yeats grave and the little church adjacent to the cemetery. We drove closer to Ben Bulben, a mountain made famous by Yeats, for pictures and a nice drive thru deserted roads. We stopped off at Mullaghmore, a picturesque sea side village where Mountbatten was blown up by the IRA before arriving in Donegal. We had a so so lunch in a modern pub (no atmosphere) and did some shopping before returning back. On the way we stopped to check out two golf courses, Donegal Golf Club and Stranhill Golf Club outside of Sligo. We took a detour to drive halfway up Knocknerea. Anthony wanted to climb it but it was getting late so we headed for our cottage after buying some more groceries. We had a great view of both Knockenera and Ben Bulben across the bay from our cottage.

Wednesday was our day in Belmullet at the Carne Golf Club, another links coast on the western tip of Ireland. It was a fairly long drive over curvy, narrow roads, the normal situation in that part of Ireland. On the way we stopped in Ballina to check out a parkland course and decided to cancel our tee time at Strandhill and reserve a tee time and cart at the Ballina Golf Club. We passed a peat generating plant, a pretty trout stream complete with fly fishermen and pipe being layed by Shell for gas and many peat fields. Belmullet is a nice picturesque village and we found a pub, T. O’Talboid, that provided a pint and a good meal. Bob and I had swordfish. The Carne course is what I assume to be a typical links course, but it contained different views as islands and ocean could be seen from every hole. The huge sand dunes were a continuing problem to all except the straight shooter. The day turned out to be beautiful with full sun, but the ocean wind was always present and always changing. We couldn’t have asked for a better day. Bob and I enjoyed having a riding cart even though we almost experienced a disastrous turn over. We all played a little better than the first day and Anthony was hitting the ball long and true. We decided to take the coast road back to Bellina and were rewarded with some incredible sights. One such place was across from the Ceide Fields. The cliffs were every bit as impressive as the Cliffs of Mohr and were probably higher. The Ceide Fields which were closed as it was after 7:30 PM is the site of an archaeological dig of life 5,000 years ago. We stopped in Killala for supper but everything was closed so we continued on to Ballina where we enjoyed a good meal at the Bard. I had Seaford Thermidor, Anthony had some sort of Pasta dish and I don’t know what Jack and bob had. Bob, Anthony and I left Jack at the cottage and drove back to Easkey to hear some Irish Music at E.J. McMahon’s Pub. I was a fairly traditional pub but the music wasn’t scheduled to start until after 10:00 so after a few games of pool we called Helen Caulkin who lived with husband Joseph and their two children across the street. She invited us over for a drink and we were amazed at the nice interior of their three- story home. Joseph is a sheep and dairy farmer with well over 100 acres of land. We stopped by the pub but were not impressed with the music and went home about 11:00. It was the first time we had driven in the dark.

Thursday we got to the Ballina Golf Club a little early for our 11:00 tee time. Bob and I got a cart, Jack used a pull cart and Anthony carried his clubs. This course, a parkland, had no sand dunes and the wind was only a breeze. The Irish referred to it as a gentle course, but it was still tough to the four Americans. The weather was ideal. It is a pretty layout with nice scenery but not the wild stuff of the links courses. We enjoyed meeting the “Feisty Lady” of the Club and she had lunch with us and made reservations at a motel near Shannon for us on Friday. We went into town, Bob wanted to buy a “94 year old” customer at Crossans a drink, but it turned out the bartender was kidding about his age and said he wasn’t 71. Bob didn’t buy him a drink but we did enjoy watching the characters in the pub. Some were betting on horse races, a “runner” was taking up money and running to the bookie across the street.

Friday was clean up and leave day. The driver was allowed to sleep late while the three more mature travelers cleaned up and packed and had a last breakfast of cereal and toast (made from white bread not brown) and coffee which was our daily breakfast the entire week we were at the cottage. It was with some regret that we pulled out and locked the gate for the last time. The week had gone too fast. We got away by 11:15 and stopped in Tuam for lunch. We settled on a pub, The Brogue, and enjoyed a good lunch. It was a new pub that seemed to have a lot of business people as customers for lunch. We checked out E.G. Canavan’s across the street. It was more of the traditional type pubs but it had a woman from Slovakia for a bartender and she had no personality. We found our motel, The Two-mile Inn, near Shannon with no trouble and we arrived at the same time as a wedding party. They all seemed to be well fed and ready to celebrate. In fact we had breakfast the next morning the bride was still in her wedding gown and feeling no pain. Bob, Anthony and I rode into Limrick which seemed to be larger than I remembered. After checking out some pubs we settled on the Locke Bar and Bistro where we enjoyed a good meal (I had Irish Stew). Some one told us we could hear traditional music at the pub, O’Reily’s, next to our motel. Again we were disappointed so we left after a pint. We turned in for the at 10:15 and left a call for 6:15.

Saturday we had a leisure and big breakfast at the motel and loaded up for the airport, where we found we couldn’t board because we didn’t arrive soon enough to past through customs and get our clubs and baggage loaded. The tour director, me, should have known better but the three fellow golfers didn’t get openly mad at me and we got a 11:20 flight via JFK and had to pay $50 each. No, I didn’t volunteer to pay for the four of us. After some shopping at the Duty Free Shop where they were giving away jiggers of Irish Whiskey we boarded our plane for an uneventful ride that had to buck a 190-knot head wind and making us late for our connections. They did get us through customs fast and we ended up getting to Atlanta 30 minutes early at 4:30. Julie met us and we were on the way home after truly an experience of a life- time.

New York

I am truly blessed, fortunate and grateful for a wonderful trip to New York City with my good friend, Mary Sydney. We left Tuesday morning at 6:30 a.m. Dad got up and drove us to the airport in the middle of the night. It was raining when we arrived, but stopped by noon and never rained again. Beautiful weather for walking. We shopped at a great discount store (Daffys), had lunch at an Italian restaurant, went to Grand Central Station to look around (just 2 blocks from our hotel), and just enjoyed walking and looking.

Checked in our hotel about 3:00 – Iroquois Boutique Hotel on 44th Street. It is a beautiful small hotel – first class – on a National Register List of Best Small Hotels in the world. We went to see “Hairspray” that night with Diane DeGarno (American Idol runner-up 2004). It was really fabulous – so funny – and Diane should get an Emmy. She was great! Quite an actress.

Wednesday the highlights were riding the subway down to Canal Street and Chinatown where the shopping is amazing. They have all of these mock-up designer things at a fraction of the cost. We ate at an authentic Chinese restaurant and took the subway back up to Lincoln Center (had to change trains at Time Square, but everybody took care of us wherever we went and helped us and we didn’t even have to ask). We planned to walk through Central Park, but a rickshaw driver, Peter from Poland, approached us and convinced us we would see much more on a rickshaw, so we hopped aboard. He was a great guide. He would stop and let us take pictures and pointed out so many interesting things we would have totally missed if we had walked. Anyhow, it’s too many acres for us to have covered that much territory in one hour by foot.

We went to see Mama Mia that night and walked to the theatre. We stopped to have a bite to eat on the way, but neither of us were very hungry. The waitress seated us by the windows that went all the way down to the floor and were open. Outside on the sidewalk was a vendor selling kabobs, pretzels and other stuff, so I stepped out of the window and bought a huge hot pretzel which we had with our beer while we waited for the soup to come. Mama Mia was also fabulous. I think we saw the 2 best plays in New York.

We didn’t have time to do much on Thursday as our ride to the airport picked us up at 10:30. So, we just walked down the street and had a fabulous breakfast, packed and headed home. This was a dream trip. I wasn’t sure I would get to go when she invited me because of Dad’s situation, but she was willing to take a chance. God has answered all of our prayers in the last few weeks. So many blessings! Thank each of you who are reading this for praying for Dan. I can’t believe he’s now in Ireland!

Women in Black

Yesterday, Mary Sydney and I flew home from New York. Our flight arrived ATL airport at 3:30. We went to baggage claim, then called Bob to see where the soon-to-be Irish travelers were. They were one exit from the airport. We walked down to International Check-In and they pulled up, unloaded, kissed hello and good-by, we loaded our bags and drove the van home. Now, isn’t that just perfect timing? Bob said “I love a plan that works”.

I’m so glad Anthony is with them to take care of the others. He is designated driver (thank goodness).

One Week in the Life of a Grandaddy

This week started the last day of April 2006. Mary Lou called and asked if I would swap Adoration hour with her. Perfect, I would take her 4:00 PM time slot and she would take my 10:00 AM at the precise hour I was scheduled to have an Heart Catherization. I went to sleep contented that things were falling in to place and I might make my Ireland trip on May 18 after all.

Monday morning the Cardiologist’s nurse called and said the procedure was canceled because the lab tests indicated I was anemic. What is that! She said call your Primary Doctor. That is easier said than done. I jumped thru the hoops: call Advice Nurse, leave word, Nurse calls back, she will give Doctor message, surprise, Doctor calls back and tells me that we have to find out what is causing the anemia. He’ll see if he can fit me in for an emergency Colonoscopy. Bad news! They think some kind of cancer might be the cause. A GI person calls and reports they have me scheduled at Northside Hospital for a 12:30PM procedure and be there at 11:30 and oh yeah you know you can’t eat anything after midnight tonight and only liquids Tuesday and Wednesday. Also you have to drink a gallon of Colyte, a laxative between 6:00 PM and 10:00 PM Tuesday. Also again “Don’t forget to bring someone with you to drive you home”. Bad day. Should I call brother Bob and tell him the Ireland trip looks doubtful for me. No, I don’t know what is going on, I’ll wait.

Tuesday, nothing to eat, but it gets worse at 6:00 PM. When I was college age there was a craze that said a person couldn’t drink an ounce of beer per minute for sixty minutes. This was a little like that but Colyte is not beer and beer is not a laxative. This was bad, bad. Eight ounces every 15 minutes and after 30 minutes the “john” got involved. At 10:00 PM I said I had had enough and was quitting after I had finished 80%. Mom said she didn’t blame me but she didn’t think I had finished 75%. I went to bed feeling the worst of the colonoscopy was over.

Wednesday, Mom got me to Northside Hospital on time. I checked in while Mom parked and noticed we got a free parking ticket. Very good, Mom hates to pay for parking (water and ice too). They started wiring me up and I remembered I hadn’t told Mom about the free parking ticket and she would be some kind of upset if she paid for parking when I had a free ticket. I told myself over and over “Remember the free ticket”. They wheeled me in the procedure room and the Doctor said he was going to do an Endoscopy also. I told him I would gag like crazy when they put that thing down my throat.” I gag when I go to the dentist.” He said he did too and not to worry. The last thing I remember was worrying about him doing the mouth thing first and not vice versa. (Jeb later told me they had two instruments, but I didn’t see but one and Jeb wasn’t there). I woke up talked a little bit and Mom drove me home where she fixed me what my heart and stomach desired, Eggs, bacon, grits, bagel and coffee. She told me the nurse got upset with me after the procedure because I kept saying “Make sure you get the free parking ticket”. The good news was he didn’t find any cancer, but the bad news was I still had anemia and the Ireland date was approaching.

Thursday was a frustrating day I called three Doctor offices to find out what was next on the agenda. No luck. The nurses said the report was not available.

Friday morning the Cardiologist’s called and said I should get my blood checked. This puzzled me somewhat because I knew the colonoscopy didn’t cure my anemia. As soon as I left the house unbeknownst to me Mom got into the act. She called the doctors’ nurses and told them I had been planning a trip to Ireland for over a year and three other people were depending on me to go. I received a call in the waiting room and Mom said I had an appointment at 11:40 with Dr. Simpson, my primary doctor. He had already had a conversation with the Cardiologist and they had a plan. If I still had anemia I would get a blood transfusion. As it turned out the lab tests revealed my anemia was still present. Dr. Simpson arranged for the transfusion to take place Saturday AM.

Saturday at 7:55 AM I drove into the parking garage and got my ticket. The location was on the 11th floor in a new building adjacent to the hospital. The facilities were first rate and a nice nurse named Nicole took very good care of me as I had two pints of O- dripped into my system. It was all over by 11:45 and I left at 12:15. Surprise, surprise, the parking booth was closed and I didn’t have to pay. I wished Mom had been with me , she would have appreciated that.

The week is up I’ll see if I can cut the grass then see how I feel. I thank all those who prayed for me. I know there were a lot, from Fiona to Mrs. Deckbar and many in between. I thank God that he answered the prayers and now allows me to seek His will for me for the rest of my days. Amen

C.S. Lewis

I went to an adult ed class this morning on the Chronicles of Narnia. Dad and I watched Ted’s movie Friday night and enjoyed it very much. I have never read the book “The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe”, but saw the play in Lakeland with 3 grandsons and one granddaughter, and am very familiar with the book. This was the second week of a 2 part lecture on it and I couldn’t imagine what our fabulous Bible Study teacher could talk about for two weeks in regard to this book.

It was great…. I mean, really great. I just wonder who in our family has read the The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe and the other 6 books about Narnia? I’m all inspired, now, and want to read all of them. You all would really have enjoyed the class.

The other 6 books are: Prince Capian, The Horse and His Boy, The Voyage of the Dawn Treader, The Silver Chair, The Magician’s Nephew, and The Last Battle.

Louanne will continue the lectures and we will read all of the above, then discuss. Dates aren’t set, yet, but if anybody wants to come, let me know.

Saturday April 29

Today started as a pleasent day and got better. Julie was off to play tennis and I left to meet Jeb and watch Kelly play soccer. Kelly was a very determined player but her team was undergirled. They did, however, shut out the other team’s goalie by not letting her touch a single ball. We left for our house and to meet Mom and Ted for a lunch of hamburgers and hot dogs with ice cream for dessert. Ted and Jeb then proceeded to complete a list of “to do’s” I made. They cut the lawns, trimed the three sisters, the nandinas, the box woods, the hedge on the side of the house, the azelias and cleared the dirt and leaves under the deck steps. Since Jeb cut the grass I didn’t have to give up my coupon from Ted. Kelly beat me in a putting contest and received the first metal trophey she had ever received. She was able to run the “around the house” course in 20 seconds and then Jeb and Ted tied at 19 seconds. I didn’t try it. After we all agreed an a job well done we proceeded inside the house and had a drink. My thanks to Jeb, Ted, Mom and Kelly for a very nice day. Dad

The Perdido Formula

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PINK HOUSE
7273 CAPTAIN KID REEF
PERIDO KEY COVE, FL 32507
3:00 PM JULY 16 TO JULY 23
WEIGHTED
RENT 1,900.00 VALUE
TAX 233.35
CLEANING 165.00 10 50
TOTAL 2,298.35 9 20
DIVIDED BY 17-PAR 135.20 8 10
7 0
10-DAN &JULIE 370.39 6 -10
5 -20
8-JEB & KATHY 290.39 4 -30
7- DANNY 135.20 3 -40
5- KELLY & CLAIRE 230.39
655.99
8- BOB & CAROL 290.39
5- ERIC, DAVID, & ANDREW 345.59
635.99
8- TED 145.20
8- JAMI & GRANT 290.39
4- FIONA 105.20
3- MICHAEL 95.20
490.79
2,298.35

Rich Hunter

A friend of Dad’s died last week and he was only 53 years old. Dad & I attended his wake last night and dad gave this talk at his Mass today. I just thought you all would like to read it. Rich’s picture was in the paper today with a nice article about his life. You may want to look it up in the AJC.

RICH

My name is Dan Cashin and I served in the Stephen Ministry with Rich here at Holy Cross. The Stephen Ministry is an inter denominational organization that operates within churches throughout the nation. It is our mission to comfort those who have experienced a bump in the road of life by visiting with them, listening to them and walking the walk with them. Generally we start a training class each Fall and the class continues for 50 hours over five months.

In the Fall of 2002 less than two years ago Rich indicated he might be interested in the Stephen Ministry. Since I was our Training Coordinator I had the pleasure of interviewing Rich. The interview consisted mostly of telling him the requirements, the hours of training, the subjects, the aspect of confidentiality, the ability to listen intently, Rich nodded his head affirmatively after each requirement. The last requirement mentioned was a two year commitment. Rich said, ‘Hmm I might have a problem with that’. I couldn’t imagine why anyone would have a problem and said, ‘It’s just two years and it starts with the beginning of class.’ I never will forget his reply, ‘Well you see I have this cancer thing and the doctors have given me two years to live and I’m already well into the first year.’ I was dumbfounded, speechless and just sat there with my mouth open and no words coming out. Here’s a man with a short time to live and he is volunteering to spend precious hours helping others. But Rich came to my rescue. He explained that he’d like to use his time helping others that might be in need and he felt a call to serve. About that time I think the Holy Spirit kicked me in the seat of my pants and I said, ‘Yeah and don’t forget you’ll be a great inspiration to the others in your class, but I’m not going to mention your condition. It’ll be up to you to talk about it or not’.

Well the classes started, all strangers, one male and six charming ladies. The first class was mostly an overview of the course and introductions, the next class involved some role playing and that seemed to relax everybody. Things were getting better by the third class, there was a beginning of a spirit of bonding. The subject was on Feelings and Betty Sweeney was leading the instructions. I don’t remember what the question or the situation was but in answer to a question about feelings Rich chose that moment to talk about his feelings regarding his illness and the treatment he was going through. Rich had tears coming down his cheeks, I had tears coming down my cheeks and I guess the whole class was crying. Rich sealed the bond that had been growing among the class with his openness, his sincerity and his humility. We had a great class that supported each other and grew closer as the weeks went by. Rich, Bonnie, Diane, Darlene, Lisa, Kathy and Julie inspired each other to the extent they became the self proclaimed ‘Magnificent Seven.’

The class was commissioned in April and merged into the ministry. Rich and each one in due time received a care receiver and they did well as care givers. We celebrated the two year anniversary of the doctor’s predication at one of our semi monthly meetings. But then Rich left us, too soon. Too soon for his friends too soon for his family. It isn’t fair. Unfortunately, life in this world often isn’t fair, but Rich is now in a world where life is always fair. His time with us was too short, he had so much to do, but we thank God for the short time we had him. May the Lord be with his family, with you Bernice, with you Jessica and with you Jason in your time of grief.