Mother’s Day With The Boys

This may be the first time the three boys and their mother ever went out to dinner… at least the first time they picked up the bill!

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At “The Farm” in Athens after planting some bushes.

Thank you for getting together and taking me out to dinner for Mother’s Day. Also, thank you, Jeb, for the plants and both you and Ted for planting them. They are still alive today. I watered them this morning. Thank you for the cut flowers, Jeb, and for the cool flashlight and battery charger, Ted. I’m very blessed!!!!

Also, thank Grant and Jami, Fiona and Michael for the flowers and card. As everybody knows, I love flowers and my house if very cheerful.

Sitter Instructions – Puerto Rico Feb 1970

[Four pages of typed and hand annotated instructions for the sitter on how to take care of 3 kids and 1 cat. Also a receipt for gifts bought in the hotel. — Editor.]

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Highlights:

  • Jeb wore a tie to church. Carol wore green stockings.
  • Ted did not have to go to church.
  • Ted was not to cross the street.
  • Carol’s friends behaved better in the house than Jeb’s.
  • No kids in the basement without an adult.
  • There were workmen in the basement.
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  • Jeb bathes one night. Carol and Ted the other.
  • The heat was set to 65 degrees at night.
  • Bedtime was 8:30 school nights.
  • Pajamas can be worn three nights before being washed.
  • Lunch was 35 cents.
  • Milk was 5 cents.
  • Ted had two friends: Chris Garies and John Seelke.
  • Jeb was in cub scouts. Dues were 10 cents.
  • Thelma, the maid, came on Wednesdays.
  • We did not have to make up our beds on Wednesdays.
  • Bacon grease went in the brown jar. Other grease went in the red can.
  • The cat slept in the utility closet.
  • The milkman came on Monday, Wednesday, and Fridays.
  • Mr. Logan was in charge of the workmen.
  • The kids’ happiness and contentment was more important than the rules. [This is the first I have heard of this. — Editor.]

Sitter Instructions – Paris Oct 1973

help-grant-with-pants.pngFour pages of typed and hand annotated instructions on how to take care of four kids, a dog, and a cat. – Editor.

Sitter Instructions Paris Oct 1973.pdf

Highlights:

  • Carol does not eat noodles.
  • The sitter can eat Grant’s other pizza.
  • Grant rarely eats any supper.
  • Milk cost a dime at school.
  • Jeb leaves at 7:45 am for safety patrol duty.
  • The older three should bathe every other day.
  • Ted needs help picking out clothes.
  • Willie Mae works Thursdays 9:30 am to 5 pm.
  • No spending the night out on Saturday.
  • Everyone has a nightlight.
  • Grant needs help getting his pants on and off.
  • Mrs. Harris has weekend duty.
  • Tacia gets table scraps.
  • The cat is not allowed inside the house.

Nicole Update: Two Down But She’s Up

I just hung up from talking with Nicole. It was 8:30 p.m. over there and 11:30 a.m. here when she called. She is so thankful that she has a wonderful family to live with and they are feeding her well. She walks everywhere she goes and loves the scenery. There are several very old church ruins from the 5th century right near her, the mountains, the flowers, the sky at night is awesome. Weather is around 80 in the daytime, but dry heat, so very comfortable. She has her own room in the house (where 10 people live), with a bed and chest and desk. She’s working so hard 7 days a week so has very little time to goof off. She’s made a good friend – a guy who is 25 (a volunteer). Two of the girls have already gone home – one because of sickness in her family and the other because she just couldn’t do it. She was assigned in a remote village – no running water and squat pots – and she couldn’t handle it. Nicole hasn’t gotten any mail, yet, but hopes she will tomorrow. The big group will get together tomorrow and she will have an opportunity to go to the post office.

She’s not getting to get on line very often and very little time to blog. She just asked me to give each of you her love – so here is some hugs and kisses from Nicole XXXXOOOO.

Love,

M,J,G

Cashin, Daniel Joseph (AJC Obituary)

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DANIEL JOSEPH CASHIN, 74, of Tucker, GA, died on March 21, 2008. He was born on October 25, 1933 in Augusta, GA the son of the late Edward Joseph Cashin and Margaret O’Leary Cashin. Survivors include his wife, Julie Grant Cashin and their four children and nine grandchildren. These include, Jeb and Kathy Cashin of Snellville, Georgia, and their four children Nicole, Danny, Kelly, and Mary Claire; Carol and Bob Ettensohn of Lakeland, FL, and their three children, Eric, David, and Andrew; Ted Cashin of Avondale Estates, GA; and Grant and Jami Cashin of Athens, GA, and their two children Fiona and Michael. Preceding him in death is his elder brother Edward. Surviving are his brothers and sisters Margie Fogarty of Savannah, GA, and Kay Nohe, Bob Cashin, and Eleanor Johann, all of Augusta, Georgia.

He was a devout Catholic and for the past 21 years a member of the Holy Cross Parish in Tucker where he served as a Stephen Minister, a Eucharistic Minister to the Homebound, an Adoration Guardian and a leader in RCIA. He was also a member of the Finance Council. Previously he was an active member of Immaculate Heart of Mary.

Dan graduated from the University of Georgia in 1955. He gave his college ring to his granddaughter, Nicole, when she graduated from UGA 50 years later in 2005. This famous ring was lost for over 25 years until mysteriously found on a lake beach in Oklahoma. From 1955 to 1957, he served in the U.S. Navy as a Lt. JG on the aircraft carrier USS Bennington.

He began his professional career as a CPA with Ernst & Ernst, eventually becoming the Chief Financial Officer of Vintage Enterprises. He semi-retired starting his own accounting consultancy after earning his Executive MBA from Georgia State in 1990. He served Father Ho Lung and the Missionaries of the Poor including working directly with the poor in the slums of Jamaica. He also volunteered with Good Shepherd Services and the Crisis Pregnancy Center. He fully retired in 1999, devoting more time to his volunteer efforts, family, church, and golf game.

He died suddenly on a beautiful Good Friday shortly after a round of golf, beating his sons Grant and Jeb. The funeral Mass will be celebrated by Msgr. Paul Fogarty and Father Patrick Kingery at Holy Cross Catholic Church on Chamblee-Tucker Road, Monday, March 24, at 11 a.m. Visitation with the family will be Sunday from 5 – 6 p.m. followed by a Rosary led by Deacon Cece Reimer at Lowndes & McClane Funeral Home in Tucker, Georgia. In lieu of flowers, the family request donations to St. Martin de Porres Food Ministry at Holy Cross Catholic Church. Lowndes & McLane Funeral Home, 770.491.3021.

Published in The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on 3/23/2008.

Guest Book

Irish Mullet

Anthony wrote:

Back in Ballina, we played the course here today, a “park” course as

opposed to the other two that were links. These pictures are from a

trip we took up to Donegal on Tues, then yesterday we played Carne

near Belmullet. The cliffs were along the route back from Belmullet.

Fitting because Bob’s hairdo is a mullet.

Gotta run up to the pub. See you when we get back this weekend..

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Photos from Ballina

Anthony wrote:

The house with the green trim is where we are staying, the Beach Bar

is 50 yards away. I’m emailing from the Chat’rNet internet cafe in

Ballina. We are going to play golf this afternoon at Inniscrone (sp?)

if the weather cooperates. It’s pretty cold and windy and the rain

comes and goes. Having a good time, sorry we can’t call more often

but we didn’t setup the cell phones in advance and it would cost too

much to make calls anyway. Also don’t have a phone at the house.

Everybody’s having a great time, will email more pics later.

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Sligo Town – 8 Degrees

On 5/19/06, Tyler wrote:

I want to know about the efficacy of the anti-clotting stockings that you blokes are purported to have been wearing on the flight, what?

Anthony wrote:

mmmm Mountain Dew. I’m now at an Internet Cafe in Sligo town. Don’t have my laptop but will return with it maybe Tues. No blood clots on any of the codgers so the stockings must have worked. On my way to try to call Ashley from a pay phone. No phone at the cottage which is about a 25 minute drive from here right on a beach with a pub next door. Will send pictures on Tues or later today or something. Weather not too sporting today. 8 degrees celsius whatever that is in real degrees.